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What if I can't recognise their feeling?

Could you cover what is going on with Gypsy Rose Blanchard? People were really harsh about her making a mothers day post.

Thank you for this video. ♥️🙏

Is there such thing as a functioning alcoholic??

That’s right Prince charming is more than likely as sociopath. You probably watch the movie Cinderella one too many times as a child.

Can you please give examples of “Effort” when trying to heal?

Whenever I force myself to go out and meet people, and ask a woman out on a date, she will catch me off guard with a condescending comment and smirk. Or people will catch me off guard with personally invasive questions and condescending comments. And my CPTSD flares up and I just freeze up and go numb. And then I feel as if these people are going to abuse me. And then I isolate. It’s been 15 years I’m almost 50 and haven’t had a date or a friend.

56:18 Cake Boy who found A New Faith is a terrorist. That's why he has so many burner phones. Psychopaths always use religious bim babble - Like guilty criminals on trial who always say "I swear with God as my witness I did not kill her" because we cannot bring God in and actually put God on the stand and ask God...

He could also be a psychopath. No attachment.

Won't say it enough THE DAILY PRACTICE SAVED MY LIFE 🎉🎉, and I tuch invalid money, I'm at the rock botoom but know I'm standing ❤❤❤ I thought I was done, it was so bad.... Thank you so much for that video ❤❤❤❤ I'm an addict. I did take every thing I could between my 24 to 30 years old and had a huge wake up and I wanted with all my beeing to become a loving and respectfull person for those I love 💞. When I stoped using I felt worst and worst. I did all I could, whent to a meeting a day over 2 years and changed a lot but didn't feel better. Didn't know that my cptsd was worst than befor and it was strong since I'm 15 years old. With 23 I deceded I don't want to live a life like mine. I was using alcool and weed to fonction, but didn't use every day befor my 20th.... I didn't know how to get better. I must admit that heroine saved my life by showing me how I was without pain and I had the thought that if I have pain there's a reason, even if I don't know what... After six years I coulden't any more and I was aware that I would go back to alcool when I won't feel my stuff enough, like most of addicts and go back to alcool no way, no!!! Because I didn't support methadone for me it was or go clean or the street and my dog was 7 years old and had enough of the street. So I got clean. First I Wanted to do it for my dog, but relapsed three times and than I decided to do it for me so I can be a good master for her and it worked, one day at a time for 12 years and I asked for a medication again because I was afraid that the stress will kill me, I was in a high level of chronic stress and tired all the time, still ame. My family behaved better with me when I was distroing my self. When I got clean they behaved like nothing important happens but showed me anger because I struggled to feel good 😢 No They kicked me out and I too my chance because from me it would be very difficult to go no contact my mother didn't respect it and I tried 😢😢. Even beeing in a toxic relations I healed for not be in contact with my family and know I'm done with the Troll, need to moove out but I have a very low contact. I'm lucky we have two floors and I live up stairs and he's down stairs, I cross him... And for the reste I heal with my best compagnie Zen the Cat ❤❤❤ And I thought I heal with UA-cam for a small year but it's more six monthes 🎉🎉🎉😮😮😮😮❤❤❤ 😂😂😂 So over Happy. But how I made it I can't Tell. I'm lucky that I don't support cocaïne or any speed, my drug of choice was heroine but that quality is gone now for the worst of addicts who go to cocaïne, crack I guess and the numbers of death is frightening , those last 5-7 years and poeple under 40, hart attac 😢😢 and moms, dads.... Children go crazy, a nightmare 😢 And under cocaïne, crack or speed makes poeple act like narcissites, when they stop there personnality is stronger and come back but the addiction is hard, a kind I don't know. I succeded to brack the trauma bound I had with heroine because I don't see any good for me in it know that I can heal, I know what I choose, healing ❤❤❤❤

Incredibly helpful

I’m so glad I found you! You explain everything so well. I do believe I have CPTSD, and to top it off, I’m in a trauma bond relationship….😢

tldr: what can i do to make sure my partner, who feels this angry, understands im there for them/want to understand them? im trying to understand where my partner’s anger comes from/how it works and all of this describes exactly how our fights go everytime. usually they feel unheard/or find that i am being too stubborn and it leads them to blow up+call me names+kick things etc. usually these situations are pretty low stakes (a clogged toilet this morning for example). we have 1 bathroom and usually need to go at the same time unfortunately 😅. i went first because i woke up earlier and they needed to immediately after. they were waiting to go and reminded me to flush the toilet once halfway through so it doesn’t clog, but i didn’t. and of course it clogged. thus ensued a whole outburst of anger from my partner which included name calling, insults, screaming/shouting/kicking things. to me, these situations are low stakes. something that’s definitely annoying but not life ending and what i would expect from my partner ideally is that these small hurdles are things we can deal with together without anger or frustration because it is just what it is. i apologized for not listening and said that i should’ve done what they said but i just didn’t because i thought it would be fine and it has nothing to do with whether i think im more right than my partner (which is what they seem to believe everytime) anyways, this doesn’t seem to help (and for me this outburst of anger is very triggering given my own issues but i try to calm myself and remind myself that my partner isn’t my family etc). usually after these episodes, it ends with us spending time alone to wind down (but usually my partner doesn’t seem to calm down even with lots of time). even if i apologize and try my best to understand and listen to what happened and i try to make sure i make changes going forward so it doesn’t happen again. but i don’t like how these small things turn into big outbursts and i don’t think they realize that the insults they say while angry do affect me. it doesn’t feel like my partner cares about me or loves me in these moments. only after i say this does my partner feel a bit worried and then they begin to feel fully guilty/shameful about everything and decides it was all their fault. i don’t need them to take the blame for everything, i just want to be able to have a conversation about it. i fully understand my part in it and have no problem being held accountable for it. i don’t even mind if my partner gets mad at me or annoyed if i do things that make them mad, i completely understand that it’s just a part of a relationship. i just can’t help but feel very hurt by the things they say while they’re angry and these outbursts just continue to happen despite any promises to change or do better. it makes it incredibly hard to deal with the situation at hand. i’m not sure where to go from here and how to make sure my partner understands that i’m there to help and support them and deal with thing together. even if one of us makes a mistake or doesn’t listen, i want us to be able to go about it calmly and then have a conversation about it later.

What it comes down to is a lack of trust ! The parents mostly American have such broken down values . They project ans skate goat a child .

I'm just curious, How many people in here have been exposed to religion, and have developed convictions associated therewith, that have left them disfinctional in the "unbelieving" world?

Wow. CPTSD huh? Sounds about right. Sounds like you're talking directly to me. Amazing.

Ok I thought I’d have a quick listen 2 lines in “non traumatised people” No such thing! If you understand non duality there’s not even people but there definitely is no such thing as no trauma in a person Do better

It feels safe to be abandoned I suppose feels normal

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Don’t have opposite sex friends if you are in a relationship…..

Thanks for the video, but you say that in order to feel love inside and oneness, only comes from oneother person? From outside of us? That sounds sad for me. You have some good spots for me on the video though, that helped me to open an internal door to love! 💚❤

Thank you so much for your channel!!! 🙏🙏🙏🩷🩷🩷

My experience is that if that brother was the only one addicted it was something that might have happened outside the family unit eg sexual assault or witnessing something horrific. That appeared to be the case with my sister. And my last bf. We had no idea as a family and it only came out when my sister went into therapy but my bf refused to go but would hint often to sexual abuse when he was little but was too ashamed and too deep into addiction to seek help. I didn’t manage to end the relationship as i was too concerned for him ti leave but therby completely damaged myself, cptsd from it. It “ended” cause he hooked up with another woman whos also an alcoholic. I didnt drink that much but I recognise crossing my own boundaries with enabling and or smoking i got sucked into his world. I hope he is ok.

I'm in limerance with one of my colleagues. Slowly moving out of it. It happened because I don't dare to live my own life. I tried it with a wife for 16 years. It didn't work then either. Or rather, it did work, I got myself a major distraction so that I didn't have to face myself.

I had a narcissistic father and was until recently in a marriage with a narcissist for 18 years.. He only once said to me that he loved me. Once in 18 years. Only when I came to God my eyes were opened that this man doesn't love me, he loved the perks he got from me. I was trauma bonded to him for too long. We have teenage children. Son is after me and my husband doesn't and never did showed him any love. My daughter is after him and he is good to her(I won't say love because he doesn't know what love is). I was willing to forgive anything just for a image of a happy family. He didn't even work nowhere for longer than 2 months, occasionally. I payed for housing where ever we lived. Of course this marriage took a toll on me. I would just feel like someone is tearing my heart and lungs if I allow him to leave. I had so many symptoms, that multiplied recently. Even dreams. I dreamt of being in dungeons and stuff like that. I procrastinate and most days don't open mail because it is too much for me. Now that he is finally gone I am learning to do things. My biggest concern is that my daughter will have a horrible taste in men.

I have CPTSD and ADHD. Go figure

You are my new inspiration ❤

Learning a lot from your brilliant video's, red flags becoming more clear. Trust and fear will take time to heal though. Thank you..

So many disturbed emotions when presented with emotional intimacy in an available partner relationship, feel sick to the stomach, deep desire to cut and run and have anger towards the other person and take personally everything they say. It’s exhausting.

It’s the worst when they bring children into it. People are monsters.

Hit the nail on the head ❤️

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I’ve never felt so seen in my entire life - I feel the kind of amazement when a magic trick just blew your mind. It’s a little uncomfortable but also full of hope.

I feel I am bad n anger 😡 I feel shame I feel embarrassed I feel dirt

i can't keep on watching these explanations of what CPTSD is until the end; it triggers too much experiences and is too painful; i have to stop watching half way

Yes I have complex trauma really bad and my job makes too difficult because I don’t like being around people plus I’m not a social person

I’m like this all the time. My siblings sometimes overwhelm me. My friends overwhelm me. I can go to work daily but social events with co workers can sometimes make me feel lonely while I’m there. I feel like being alone is better because I’m safe and I can escape and be and do what I want. But I do also feel guilty that I’m missing out on life.

I was really happy when my parents died; now that i'm 66 and after 30 years of psychiatric consultations, nothing really changed; nightmares, heavy cramps in my legs at night, lots of medication, always being tired... i was an unwanted child and never got some mother love and my father was always absent or came home drunk; all the rest has to do with sexual abuse from both genders, my only answer being to dissociate; i don't believe in healing

I see that this video was released a couple years ago, and I just watched it for the first time. It's really timely. It seemed like she was the perfect person at the wrong time. Perfect first two months and then something switched. I know trauma, and I could see it start to pop up for her after a certain amount of time. I wanted to be there for her so badly. In the end, I left. It felt like the most loving thing to do for both of us at the time. It felt like we got so close. I hope that she can thrive.

I isolate when I get overwhelmed, which is very often with my mental and physical illnesses. In general I could say I’m happier alone like others say, but I still would love to have at least one good friend. I avoid relationships because I feel like I’m too much for people, too emotional. I can barely handle my own life some days, how could I be truly be a good friend? That’s my fear. I miss having friends, a therapist is not the same! 😂 I stay alone to stay “safe” but after years of it, I want connection.

When people tell you who they are, believe them.

Wonderful videos. And I also finally realize who you look like: Jennifer Saunders!

I'm just sitting here crying because I've been trying to hard to figure out whats wrong. I knew a little bit but I couldn't explain it and I just want to say thank you. This is so hard to hear. But thank-you. I'm already a recovering addict and I will find a meeting. Is there a certain type of meeting that you would recommend? You say stop thinking about them I always am all day I wont realize hours have gone by I'm 7 months sober just redirect my attention? I don't want to punish myself for thinking about it but I don't I'm a yoga teacher so it conflicts. I ruminate I play the same conversation over and over. I was engaged for years and he was narcissistic and now I'm back now that that is over I'm back to obsessing about this other guyi was obsessing over before I met my ex fiance in obsessing over a guy from 2018 now and I can't believe I picked up where I left off

I didn't (still don't) consciously suppress my emotions and memories; I unconsciously repressed them, and still do. Repression is harder to deal with since I don't know I'm doing it. Will the Daily Practice still work?

He sounds terrible. He’s almost 50!! What the hell is going on in the world?

I tried this in college, but it didn't work. I felt bad/empty, so I would pig out. Afterwards I felt bad/overfull. The bad feeling didn't change, only the way my stomach did. So I stopped.

5:25 This this this!

❤❤❤ Thanks so much , I just found your video come up on my feed, So a new subscription here 🥰 Your no doubt helping so many others , I think it helps people hearing that other people struggle with the same thing, it brings comfort and makes people feel less lonely 🫶🏻🥰Fifi

Thank you ❤️